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Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2008 7:05:12 PM
Subject: Fwd: O.T. but important
--- In CanineRepro-PuppyCare@yahoogroups.com , Mrs Mary
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My mother n law sent this and even tho its off task I think its
important
Mary
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Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)
This is important information for females of ALL ages.
When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to
my lady friends, but I forwarded it to most everyone
in my address book. My men friends have female friends
and this information is too important to miss someone.
Please pass it along.
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were
interviewed on what they look for in a potential
victim and here are some interesting facts:
1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim
is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman
with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that
can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go
after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair
are not common targets.
2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They
will look for women whose clothing is easy to remove
quickly. Many of them carry scissors around
specifically to cut clothing.
3) They also look for women on their cell
phone,searching through their purse, or doing other
activities while walking because they are off-guard
and can be easily overpowered.
4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early
morning, between 5:00 a.m. and 8:30 a.m.
5) The number one place women are abducted
from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. Number
two: Are office parking lots/garages. Number three:
Are public restrooms.
6) The thing about these men is that they are looking
to grab a woman and quickly move her to another
locationwhere they don't have to worry about getting
caught.
7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape
carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is
15-20 years.
8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get
discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for
them to realize that going after you isn't worth it
because it will be time-consuming.
9) These men said they would not pick on women who
have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be
used from a distance, in their hands.
Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get
really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon.
So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not
worth it.
10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If
someone is following behind you on a street or in a
garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look
them in the face and ask them a question, like what
time is it, or make general small talk: 'I can't
believe it is so cold out here,' 'we're in for a bad
winter.' Now you've seen their face and could identify
them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.
11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your
hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK! Most
of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a
woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not
be afraid to fight back.
Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a
huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever
he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out
will be a deterrent.
13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with
strength but you can by outsmarting them. If you are
grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the
attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and
armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD.
One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used
the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date
rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin
and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches.
Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you
can stand it - it hurts.
14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I
know from a particularly unfortunate experience that
if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You
might think that you'll anger the guy and make him
want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists
told our instructor is that they want a woman who will
not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and
he's out of there.
15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his
first two fingers and bend them back as far as
possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as
possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both
knuckles cracked audibly.
16) Of course the things we always hear still apply.
Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone
with you if you can and if you see any odd
behavior,don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!
You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd
feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest
point on your body. If you are close enough to use
it, do!
2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans.
If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT
HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are
that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse
than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN
LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car,
kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out
the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't
see you, but everybody else will. This has saved
lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after
shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing
their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO
THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is
the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the
passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you
where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK
THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO
NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun
the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car.
Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the
back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as
the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than
having them find your body in a remote location.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a
parking lot or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at
the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your
car from the passenger door. Most serial killers
attack their victims by pulling them into their vans
while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of
your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is
sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may
want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a
guard/policeman to walk you back out.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better
paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs.
(Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the
perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his
control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a
running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it
most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably
in a zigzag pattern!
8. As women, we are always trying to be
sympathetic:STOP! It may get you raped or killed. Ted
Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking,
well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies
of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a
limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or
with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next
victim.
9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her
friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night
before last, and she called the police because it was
late and she thought it was weird. The police told her
'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'
The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had
crawled near a window, and she was worried that it
would crawl to the street and get run over. The
policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way,
whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her
that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry
recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes
thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they
have not verified it, but have had several calls by
women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their
doors when they're home alone at night.
Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a
crying baby ----This
should be taken seriously because the Crying Baby
theory was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this
past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in
Louisiana.
I'd like you to forward this to all the women you
know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by
lighting another candle. I was going to send this to
the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers,
wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass
it on to them as well
Yorkshire Terriers
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From: j_umensetter <j_umensetter@
To: j_umensetter@
Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2008 7:05:12 PM
Subject: Fwd: O.T. but important
--- In CanineRepro-
<kentuckyliving04@
My mother n law sent this and even tho its off task I think its
important
Mary
-------Original Message-----
Through a Rapist's Eyes (No Joke)
This is important information for females of ALL ages.
When this was sent to me, I was told to forward it to
my lady friends, but I forwarded it to most everyone
in my address book. My men friends have female friends
and this information is too important to miss someone.
Please pass it along.
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were
interviewed on what they look for in a potential
victim and here are some interesting facts:
1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim
is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman
with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that
can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go
after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair
are not common targets.
2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They
will look for women whose clothing is easy to remove
quickly. Many of them carry scissors around
specifically to cut clothing.
3) They also look for women on their cell
phone,searching through their purse, or doing other
activities while walking because they are off-guard
and can be easily overpowered.
4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early
morning, between 5:00 a.m. and 8:30 a.m.
5) The number one place women are abducted
from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. Number
two: Are office parking lots/garages. Number three:
Are public restrooms.
6) The thing about these men is that they are looking
to grab a woman and quickly move her to another
locationwhere they don't have to worry about getting
caught.
7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape
carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is
15-20 years.
8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get
discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for
them to realize that going after you isn't worth it
because it will be time-consuming.
9) These men said they would not pick on women who
have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be
used from a distance, in their hands.
Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get
really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon.
So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not
worth it.
10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If
someone is following behind you on a street or in a
garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look
them in the face and ask them a question, like what
time is it, or make general small talk: 'I can't
believe it is so cold out here,' 'we're in for a bad
winter.' Now you've seen their face and could identify
them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.
11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your
hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK! Most
of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a
woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not
be afraid to fight back.
Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a
huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever
he goes), yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out
will be a deterrent.
13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with
strength but you can by outsmarting them. If you are
grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the
attacker either under the arm (between the elbow and
armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD.
One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used
the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date
rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin
and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches.
Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you
can stand it - it hurts.
14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I
know from a particularly unfortunate experience that
if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful. You
might think that you'll anger the guy and make him
want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists
told our instructor is that they want a woman who will
not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and
he's out of there.
15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his
first two fingers and bend them back as far as
possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as
possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both
knuckles cracked audibly.
16) Of course the things we always hear still apply.
Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone
with you if you can and if you see any odd
behavior,don'
You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd
feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest
point on your body. If you are close enough to use
it, do!
2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans.
If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT
HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you....chances are
that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse
than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN
LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car,
kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out
the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't
see you, but everybody else will. This has saved
lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after
shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing
their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO
THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is
the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the
passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you
where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK
THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO
NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun
the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car.
Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the
back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as
the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than
having them find your body in a remote location.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a
parking lot or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at
the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your
car from the passenger door. Most serial killers
attack their victims by pulling them into their vans
while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of
your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is
sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may
want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a
guard/policeman to walk you back out.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better
paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs.
(Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the
perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his
control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a
running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it
most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably
in a zigzag pattern!
8. As women, we are always trying to be
sympathetic:
Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking,
well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies
of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a
limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or
with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next
victim.
9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her
friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night
before last, and she called the police because it was
late and she thought it was weird. The police told her
'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'
The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had
crawled near a window, and she was worried that it
would crawl to the street and get run over. The
policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way,
whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her
that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry
recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes
thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they
have not verified it, but have had several calls by
women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their
doors when they're home alone at night.
Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a
crying baby ----This
should be taken seriously because the Crying Baby
theory was mentioned on America's Most Wanted this
past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in
Louisiana.
I'd like you to forward this to all the women you
know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by
lighting another candle. I was going to send this to
the ladies only, but guys, if you love your mothers,
wives, sisters, daughters, etc., you may want to pass
it on to them as well
Yorkshire Terriers
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